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Sexual Addiction

The Problem

Our sexual addiction issue began as an overpowering desire for pleasurable relief. We were running from an inner pain, loneliness, emptiness, or insecurity that we could not cope with in any other way. At first, it did provide the relief we sought. For a time, lust, pornography, or sex with ourselves or with others dissolved the tension. It relieved the depression, resolved the conflict, and provided the means to deal with or escape from life’s seemingly unbearable situations.

Eventually, our search for relief became an addiction, and the addiction took on a life of its own. We gradually replaced pleasure and relief with tension, depression, rage, guilt, and even physical distress. To relieve this new pain, we resorted to more sex, pornography, and lust, losing more control in the process. We were driven to spend more time thinking about and carrying out our addiction. We lived in denial to avoid recognizing just how much our addiction controlled our life.

Finally, we risked our relationships, jobs, ethics, and values, and even neglected our children. All the while, we rationalized our sexual behaviors. We asked ourselves, “What will a little fantasy hurt?” or “What they don’t know, won’t hurt them.” As we lived a double life, we became disconnected from reality making true intimacy with another impossible. We carried this behavior from relationship to relationship and even into our marriages.

Why? We were running, running from love, running from pain — pain from shame, self-hate, and multiple forms of abuse. We lacked self-worth, feared intimacy, and were spiritually bankrupt.

A new loneliness overwhelmed us as we realized that because of our addiction, we had become increasingly separated from God and our loved ones. We began to seek sobriety. As we stayed sexually sober for some time, we discovered that even though we may not be acting out our compulsion, our obsession was still with us.

Take a few minutes to complete the following questionnaire. It may reveal more about your sexual addiction issues than you realize, helping you find out if your sexual addiction is reaching a destructive level in your life.

Are You Sexually Addicted?

  1. Do you go from one relationship to another?
  2. Do you feel the right relationship would fulfill all your needs?
  3. Do you use sex as an escape?
  4. Do you make excuses to leave your partner as soon as possible after the act?
  5. After a sexual experience, do you feel guilty?
  6. Has your pursuit of sex interfered with your relationship with your spouse?
  7. Do you find you cannot resist a sexual overture?
  8. Have you ever sought out help to change your sexual behavior or thinking? Have you ever wanted to?
  9. Have you ever tried to limit or stop acting out, but have been unable to?
  10. Do you put yourself, or others, in dangerous situations in pursuit of sex?
  11. Have you found that you cannot resist sex or sexual images?
  12. Do you have trouble concentrating or completing tasks at work, always thinking about sex?
  13. Do you spend time on the Internet viewing pornographic websites?
  14. Do you take time away from work to pursue sexual activities?
  15. Do you feel you have lost control of your actions to fulfill the need for sex?
  16. Were you ever arrested for a sexual offense?
  17. Do you feel sexually attracted to the same sex?

If you answered YES to at least seven of these questions, you might consider exploring this area of recovery.

The Solution

TAKE RESPONSIBILITY: Recognizing and accepting responsibility for toxic patterns of behavior is the first step toward true freedom from our addiction. Walking through the recovery process with Jesus Christ as our Higher Power allows us to admit our powerlessness to control our addiction. He will help us overcome our destructive habits.

YIELD TO GOD
As we start to gain a period of sobriety over our sexual addiction, we began to recognize the many disguises the enemy uses to trick us into lusting. We learn not to rely on our failed and weakened selves, but rather, to turn to God’s pure love and absolute power. With an increased reliance on God, we work on our recovery with altered attitudes, a changed heart, and growing humility. We gain a progressive victory over lust.

As we yield to God, temptation begins to lose its control over us. When we admit we are powerless and give our lives and our will over to God, He works in us, and we begin enjoying a healthy new balance in our lives. Leaning on and learning from others in the program, we continue to walk in His strength, gaining true freedom from lust and sin through obedience to Christ our Lord.

WORK THE 12 STEPS AND CONNECT WITH OTHERS:
We commit to working the 12 Steps, to attend regularly the Celebrate Recovery meetings, and to getting an Accountability Partner and Sponsor for our addiction. We identify triggers and avoid people, places, and things that tempt our addiction. We accept God’s standards for sexual purity and allow God total access to our minds (thought life), and we change our belief system toward our sexuality. We avoid crossover addictions, including food, eating disorders, alcohol, and drugs, and we understand the root of each core issue we identify with and become willing to experience grief, forgiveness, and acceptance.

We choose to accept Jesus Christ!

Meeting Days, Times & Locations

GRACE BIBLE CHURCH
SOUTHWOOD CAMPUS
Celebrate Recovery Main Meeting
Tuesdays, 7:00 – 9:00 pm
1901 S. Harvey Mitchell Pkwy
College Station, TX 77840
Church Phone: 979.695.2000
CR MINISTRY LEADERS
Diane Davis: 979-575-3130
diane.davis1950@yahoo.com
Craig Miller: 979-777-7148
sigmacoog@yahoo.com

CONNECTING POINT CHURCH
Celebrate Recovery Main Meeting
Fridays, 7:00 pm – 9:00 pm
Childcare Available
410 Harvey Rd
College Station, TX 77845
Church Phone: 979-693-5555
MINISTRY LEADERS
Carol Carey: 979-492-5425
tolerunner@yahoo.com
Eugene Lansford:
eugenelansford@gmail.com

HOLY INNOCENTS
EPISCOPAL CHURCH

Celebrate Recovery Main Meeting
Thursdays, 7:00 PM – 9:00 PM
600 N McIver St
Madisonville, TX 77864
Church Phone: 936-348-2034
MINISTRY LEADERS
Gordon Plumlee: 936-348-1785
gordonplumlee@hotmail.com
Cat Plumlee: 936-348-0884

Hurts, Habits, and Hang-ups

  • Adult Children of Family Dysfunction
  • Anger
  • Chemical Dependency
  • Codependency
  • Codependent Women in a Relationship With a Sexually Addicted Man
  • Eating Disorders
  • Food Addiction
  • Gambling Addiction
  • Love and Relationship Addiction
  • Mental Health
  • Physical, Sexual, and Emotional Abuse For Women
  • Self Injury
  • Sexual Addiction
  • Veterans – Combat Related Post-Traumatic Stress
  • Veterans – Military Sexual Trauma
  • Veterans – Spouses and Family Transition

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28 Jun

We admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.

Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. James 5:16a NIV

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Let us examine our ways and test them, and let us return to the Lord. Lamentations 3:40 NIV

We have to acknowledge our baggage in order to let it go. Otherwise, we'll keep lugging around burdens God never intended us to carry.

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The Lord...visits the iniquity of the fathers on the children and the children’s children, to the third and the fourth generation. Exodus 34:7

But Jesus Christ has the power to break EVERY chain, including the cycle of generational sin!!

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Therefore, I urge you, brothers, in view of God's mercy, to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God - this is your spiritual act of worship. Romans 12:1 NIV

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For it is God who works in you to will and to act according to his good purpose. Philippians 2:13 NIV

When we believe God can fix what we have been unable to, we find hope like never before.

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